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Nell Ann Craig's avatar

Thank you for such a beautiful piece! The “ding” that it was there for me to read was meant to be just at the time it arrived. My husband doesn’t understand why I read what I do. “You enjoy reading that stuff?” So…I read it aloud for him. I’m pretty sure he changed his mind, even if just ever so slightly! You helped both of us today!

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Marlee Terry's avatar

So lovely I read it twice!

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Effie Nunes's avatar

Karen, I really enjoyed your story. You are so talented and I admire all you do!

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Pat Epstein's avatar

Beautiful. I was interviewed once by our local paper (a community volunteer spotlight kind of thing) and was asked a variant on this question: "Name three people with whom you would like to have dinner." Like you note in the article, most answers were Lincoln, Washington, a few Jesus....... My answer, because I "knew" these historical guys, was, "Three people from about 1000 years out. I want to know what happens!" Clever me! LOL! But it was true. The past is, well, the past. But what happens? Do we make it as a species? Are we traveling between the stars? Sigh............................

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Wendy Deuring's avatar

A beautiful musing, and the tension of choosing between someone we loved and someone famous. Why does choosing someone we loved seem like a squandered opportunity, as if we might actually gain great wisdom from a one-day conversation with Einstein?

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AMS's avatar

Wonderful. Thank you.

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Janine Contat's avatar

Thank you for this article. I became a widow 3 months ago yesterday. and I have been thinking about this same question. I used to answer it as wanting to spend time with my Mother again, not someone famous. Now I answer it with my husband, Greg. About a week ago, I cried myself to sleep thinking about many good things we had done together and the problems we had dealt with. But it all comes down to wanting him back. I had been his caregiver for several years and having all those responsibilities disappear has been kind of odd, all this extra time to fill. I know the void will never be filled, but I am trying every day to accept life as it is now.

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Cherie's avatar

Lovely. And like Lars I would pick my beloved spouse who left this Earth too soon. 💔

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Janet Jaeger's avatar

Such a beautiful, evocative story. I loved it so much.

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Kathie Glasserman's avatar

Such a beautiful piece. It brought a lump to my throat and a heaviness in my chest. Everyone knows who I would say if I got a day to spend with anyone; my husband who died in 2018. Sure I could say so many people; we all have a list. But if you've lost that one person, that would be your answer.

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Kate Jones's avatar

❤️ ❤️ ❤️ 🙏

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Judy Johnson's avatar

What a lovely and poignant piece, Karen. Thank you for writing and drawing. I've just come from a weekend with my "cancer sisters," and so the women we have lost would be invited to tea. And probably a few of my cats--Jeb and Jim most especially.

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Suzette Ciancio's avatar

Oh, my! Thank you! This is one I will keep to reread and reread, and share. What is the saying, “Life is what happens when you’re not paying attention.”? ❤️

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Mary Alice Nadeau's avatar

A lovely story and picture on a hot steamy summer day.

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Kathy Stieber's avatar

So beautiful. I'm still crying.

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